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So my computer is still not letting me be successful. I can not post on my vlog until I get this fixed but we can continue here. So there is still some hope. This week I want to talk about healing relationships. I recently had to deal with issues in my personal relationships that created chaos, a break up, and then reconciliation. Just trying to figure out how to put everything back together again is work but its exciting and frustrating all at the same time. Relationships have a way of growing on you and if you allow yourself to feel the ups and downs you will grow within your relationships. All relationships go through these cycles but most of us don't stick it out because of the emotional discomfort we suffer. Fortunately, my relationships were permanent and not ones I could walk away easily so sticking it out wasn't an option. If in your relationships, you find yourself at a loss and unsure what to do, what resources have you planted around you in order to be successful? I ask myself these questions because I've watched a lot of relationships fail due to lack of understanding on both side. How do we resolve issue and conflict in our personal relationships?
YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
So because of technical difficulty my videos still aren't up but I'm working on it. I hope you are having a great start to your weekend. My weekend consist of activities with my kids and doing more videos for youtube. I have some really great topics coming up for discussion so stay tuned. I want to explore even more topics closely related to my younger girlfriends out there that are going through some things in life that are challenging to their success. I am researching more topics that will give insight to issues related to personal life issues such as dealing with making the right choices. I would love to explore more topics related to girlfriend to girlfriend relationships such as breaking up with a girlfriend. I like to focus on the unpleasant issues as well as the self esteem building topics. Next week I will touch on this more. Well because its Friday and the weekend has just begin lets just say Have a great weekend and Enjoy!
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YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
I am trying my best to post the Top 10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date Another Woman's Man. In this video, I try my best to convince my girlfriends out there to stay away from dating another woman's man. Its because of all the bad things that go along with Cheating with another woman's man. I mean I really break it down from how he will treat you to how you will begin to feel inside. I make these videos as inspiration to my younger and less experienced girlfriends out there that may not have any guidance as a growing young woman. Every woman needs that older and wiser woman to help guide her into becoming the very best woman she can be. I realize that even sometimes when you have guidance you still need more of it. I hope that these videos will one day reach any woman not only younger women that really need encouragement, love, and insight about womanhood and growing into the Queen she is called to be.
YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
So I have been missing in action for a little bit but its finally available. New video content has been uploaded. I am looking forward to sharing more and more with my girlfriends some of my experiences and my point of view about life as a woman. Dear GirlFriend Diaries has been a dream of mine for some time now and it has finally become a reality. I look forward to bringing as much useful knowledge as possible. So without further ado, first its Step Ya No Game Up. This is so needed because sometimes when your young and naive you are clueless. Often people take advantage. So you need to know the signs of when and how to apply the word no. There are times when no is so appropriate and discerning those times can be difficult. I am sharing some insight about the most common uses for the word NO. Please subscribe to our Youtube Channel and share our videos with your friends.
YouTube Channel: dear GirlFriend diaries
YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
I hope you are getting everything ready to jumpstart ya holiday. New material should be up on YouTube this week. I recorded Step Ya No Game Up and Levels which I will be working on this week. These videos address some of the common downfalls to most relationships. Step Ya No Game Up is about discerning when to use the word no and how to use it properly. Learning when to say no is a discipline everyone needs to create and set boundaries to prevent unwanted behaviors in your personal relationships. Learning when to say NO can help to prevent disappointments and heartbreaks in your life.
The Levels video talks about the different levels & stages that you can go through and identify your prospective mate to get the guy you want. Levels helps you to identify where his mindset is currently and how you can transition into a great foundation in order to get your man and have the relationship you want.
These videos are designed with my girlfriends in mind to help you take your relationships to the next level of effectiveness and effeciency. In relationships we want good convo, great vibes, love, and support. Relationships are work and require a level of skills and practice to make them their best.
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YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
Hey GirlFriends,
Well new content is up today on YouTube. Its just a quick video about whats to come for the summer with Dear GirlFriend Diaries. So this summer will have a few new features and segments on Dear GirlFriend Diaries vlog. In the upcoming weeks we will be experimenting with new material such as a cooking show and the Panda Diaries. The cooking show will be featuring Mom aka Mom Dukes as we are fixing to cook in the kitchen we will be fixing our mother and daughter relationship. In these episodes we will be creating and critiquing new and old recipes and Im talking about the classic recipes like chicken and dumplings, swiss steak, macaroni and cheese, potato salad, kabobs, lasagna, guacamole, brownies, and so much more. So look forward to that coming soon. Last but not least I am hoping to release the first few episodes of The Panda Diaries. This is where I face my struggles and the challenges that are commonly held in a new relationship.
Mr. Panda and I will explore some of the real reasons why relationships fail and how to address some of these issues in a marital relationship. We will fight through our love jungle or jungle of love shall I say to see if love really will conquer all. So as you can see I have a busy summer ahead and lots of new stuff in store and the summer has only just began. So until next time ladies ..
Bye GirlFriends!
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Hey GirlFriendssss!
Well we have been working hard on new material and we are just about ready to release. I am excited to say the women's panel lunch is upon us and we will be sharing our thought and ideas about topics that we have preselected that relate to the lives of our girlfriends. As women we commonly have had to overcome and face the same issues. During this experiment, we are challenging ourselves to remove those common dividers such as politics, race, and religion. Everyone is excited to participate in this project because we as women remember being in our younger days and stumbling and falling a time or two. Often we don't have someone close to us that we trust enough that we can get advice from or even just to listen and share our problems with. Well this project is help with just those issues. As women we are responsible to go back and help the next generation along in their journey by sharing our experiences. Our hopes are that we can touch a few lives by sharing our victories.
Until later GirlFriends!
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YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
So recently, I met an older gentlemen that was dealing with alcohol abuse and drug addiction. After he shared his story what took me by surprise the most was how late in life he started his bad habits. It made me empathize with him though because we all have had to deal with our habits at some point in our lives. It was at that moment I realized that bad habits can come into ya life when you least expect it and when your vulnerable. So I thought to myself, that when I was breaking a bad habit that it had to be the most challenging and trying situation ever. All I could do was understand the difficulty in what he is facing. Quitting bad habits is a purging of behaviors that have probably been in ya life for quite some time. If caught early then we can usually walk away without much damage. The problem is in the beginning we seem to think it is not a habit but it is only fun and that it is all under control or that quitting is no problem. When in actuality those are the lies we continue to tell ourselves to engage without all the guilt or having to confront the issue itself. To break a bad habits it takes everything you got to be dedicated to quitting. So with this post I just want to encourage anyone struggling or dealing with addiction or bad habits. This is not an easy battle and if you really want it then you can find your way to being addiction free.
Ttyl GirlFriends.
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YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
So over the weekend I was thinking about issues that girlfriends can relate to and so I began to look over my own life. Recently, I had a situation arise that allowed me to see that life is ALL choices. Some choices we make and others are made by the people we choose to have in our lives. In relationships we are either building bridges or burning bridges.
I used to think that to like someone or not like someone was just natural or it just happened all by itself. This is not the truth. We determine in our own thoughts if we like someone or if we do not like the person based off of our thoughts around our experiences with that individual. It is my interactions with someone that will determine if I like them or not and vice versa. For example, if I hang out with a group of friends and someone says something that I disagree with or they do something i don't like and then it happens multiple times I may decide in that moment that I don't really like that person's approach and sum that experience with them up to a negative one. If I choose to I may walk away feeling as if I don't really like that person and may therefore create negative thoughts about them which will create similar future experiences with that person. So before you hop on the bandwagon to put someone on your blacklist or block consider this: Did I contribute to this negative experience in some way? Did this interaction impact my life in some majorly negative way? Can this person contribute to my life in the future? Is this person connected to others that I associate with? In spite of our differences can we agree to disagree? So the next time you react to someone by trying to block them take a moment to reconsider how can I rebuild this bridge and turn it into something positive.
Well Girlfriends, Ttyl
YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
YouTube Channel: Dear GirlFriend Diaries
Hey GirlFriends!
Its Friday. Yesterday's girls night went so well. I had an ice breaker session with 2 of the ladies from Dear GirlFriend Diaries which you will get to meet soon in our group therapy session. I tried to gather women from different backgrounds to make the shared perspectives diverse and interesting. Each lady will give a brief introduction of herself and talk about her hopes for the vlog and her contribution to this project. We are all very excited and you should be too. Happy Friday GirlFriends and enjoy ya day.
Ttys GirlFriends!
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